Keith F. Miller, Jr.

A Queer Project for ALL Men

One of the most common questions I get is whether The Pillow Talk Project is only about and for gay men. My response is always the same: no. This is a movement ... Go Deeper

Society’s Best Kept Secret

Women are taught to be strong. Men are taught to appear strong. And there’s a big difference between the two definitions that will change our lives as we know i... Go Deeper

What is Intimacy?

What is intimacy? It is what we all search for. In the palm of that special someone’s hand as we hold it. In the supple cheek as we caress it. In the eyes of a... Go Deeper

When Strong Women Raise Men

Men aren’t the only ones responsible for teaching our boys how to be men. And based on many of the interviews I’ve done thus far, the men who seemed to be most ... Go Deeper

Tobias

From the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy required in his relationship with his mother to the lack of true friendship in the gay community, Tobias, a late-twentys... Go Deeper

Masculinity: Never Measuring Up

Society likes to give us one definition of masculinity that is often more rooted in what you aren’t supposed to do than what you are. And like a steel-framed b... Go Deeper