Keith F. Miller, Jr.

The Boy and Unconditional Love

What does the path to manhood require? And what does it take to really become a man? Is it dating women? Is it fulfilling a checklist of tasks or duties? Is one... Go Deeper

Surviving the Pain

There are two factors young men are taught to determine what a "real man" is: pain and strength. When it comes to pain, it is about how much you can take. With... Go Deeper

De-Colonizing Beauty

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder--at least that’s what we’re told. But just because other people can acknowledge and validate your beauty, it doesn’t mean y... Go Deeper

Family. Race. Identity. Self.

Family. Race. Identity. Self. All of these things play an invaluable role in helping us understand at a young age who we are and how that affects the way we exp... Go Deeper

Not a Victim. A Survivor

Sometimes the most powerful lessons come from the moments where we feel the most helpless. For Adam, that moment came one night while he was walking with his fi... Go Deeper

Gerald

Gerald, a mid-twentysomething Filipino American, has all kinds of brilliant ideas about beauty, masculinity, and male desire. A deep thinker with a strong but ... Go Deeper

A Cultural Tightrope

If you had to think about it, which person would you consider more masculine? Someone who is confident, fearless, and doesn’t take shit from anyone? Or someone ... Go Deeper

Confessions of a Demisexual

Sexuality is a trending topic. And it probably always will be. There’s something fascinating about knowing the intimate details about who others choose to engag... Go Deeper

Can You Feel My Love?

How would you define intimacy? Pillow talk? How do you show them in the context of a relationship? There’s no one answer to any of these questions, which proves... Go Deeper

More Than Just Looks

Think about a man you would consider beautiful. Now, what came to mind first? His smile? Broad shoulders? Impressive jaw line? Did you for a second think about ... Go Deeper